Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Something from David H

The Importance Of Cancer Support Groups

Many cancer patients find extreme benefit from joining cancer support groups. A network of supporters can help them manage the flood of emotions and fears they experience during cancer treatment and beyond. Studies have shown that support groups lessen anxiety, boost self-esteem, lower depression, and improve relationships. They are also excellent information and education resources.

Cancer patients, along with their family members and caregivers, often find support groups to be good therapy. But cancer support groups are not therapy groups, although psychologists and social workers may facilitate group meetings. They are more like community-based sharing groups, and each one develops a life of its own.

Whether they are cancer survivors, in remission, or going through treatment, all cancer patients have questions. And they all have numerous emotions to handle. They need a place to go for honest answers and emotional support. Cancer support groups are that place.

Support groups are empathetic communities of people who know cancer and understand the fears. Walking the cancer path is lonely, cold, and isolating. But support groups provide warm, understanding company for the journey.

Joining a cancer support group may be uncomfortable, or even scary. After all, the group members represent many different faces of cancer, and everyone must confront hard issues, including their own mortality. But support groups help validate the cancer experience and offer immeasurable support for the journey.

This validation and support is hugely important for cancer patients. It provides patients with a better grasp of their condition, and a better quality of life.

Interestingly, the survival rate may also be better for support group members than for those who undergo medical treatment alone. The American Cancer Society says many studies have been conducted to explore the
effect of support groups on survivorship. While there were no hard-and-fast findings, it is evident that support groups complement medicine and help with treatment.

Some support groups are designed to help patients cope with a particular cancer. For example,
Reach To Recovery supports breast cancer survivors, Man-to-Man helps men with prostate cancer, and there are even support groups out there for people diagnosed with a deadly disease like mesothelioma. Other groups, like Cancer Survivors Network, offer community and online support for people with any type of cancer.

Loved ones need support, too, and many support groups exist for family members and caregivers. These people are on the flip side of the cancer coin. They need support for their feelings of anger, guilt, frustration, and caregiver burnout.

The Internet is a helpful tool for finding cancer support groups. Patients can also locate groups through their doctor, nurses, hospital social workers, or community organizations. Some patients prefer groups that meet in person, while others are more comfortable with online support. Either way, there exists a cancer support group to meet anyone’s needs.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Procrastination

So I have this gene. It's a procrastination gene. It works like this: I have a thought of something that I should do, like blogging. I say to myself  "I'll do that tomorrow." Tomorrow shows up, only it's six months later; I have finished the bad part of chemo and my has grown back. I have finished my first Breast Cancer Walk. And I have been fitted for prosthetic breasts. That was the tomorrow I should have been blogging about. Yesterday.

So today I have treatment. I'm there almost all day and totally exhausted after my trip from Chicago (in which I fell in love probably 40 different time a day but that's another blog...) and for a Monday, it's pretty lively. I don't usually have treatment on Mondays but as I was at a conference last week, this was my new day. And let me tell you: I think I have been missing out on a party! There were friends and family members and laughter. TONS of laughter. But there was also the usual head nods of silent empathy from other patients as they head head to the bathroom trailing their IV hangers filled with toxic bags marked with big "handle with care: chemotherapy. Dispose of properly." My doctor checks my arm for the staph infection/ cellulitis that developed last week and we celebrate my hemoglobin counts (11!). I am under warm blankets and fall asleep. The thing about sleeping during treatment is the dreams. I don't even remembered what I dreamt today. But that is really not the point. The point is that I'm doing very well. The chemo I'm doing now is herceptin. Because it's so well tolerated (no nausea, no fatigue, no vomiting!) patients are reluctant to call it chemo.But let's call a spade a spade, shall we?

Until next time...